lol thanks mikeyquattro, I just had a look around the ashtray and there it is!
yup, i searched the threads and saw about the seat airbag connectors sometimes needing a bit of a clean - I prised the red block connectors out (from under the front seats) but not much to clean although there is a yellow block connector next to them which i couldnt figure out how to release without breaking it
I didn'y know whether or not the code (if there is one) needs resetting but I guess once the cable arrives I can capture the codes, reset and see where we are..
ronald