As the title says, I need your help please. BUT before I ask for it I think it only right to give you all a quick intro...
I'm currently driving an S2 (3B), which I've had for approx 4 years. Love it to bits (even though it's in a little bit of a sorry state right now), but recently I decided to give up my freedom and got engaged. Now, the wifey to be has started with the ol' "oooh I can't be driving this heap of junk! It's too big! Clutch is too stiff! Don't like the gear change! It only has 2 doors!" Blah blah blah blah blah.......!!!

I've considered a few cars (Civic type r, Seat Leon, R32 - new etc) but I've decided to stick to an Audi and thought in which case it has to be an S3 (it has 2 doors so the soon-to-be aint too happy... But I've told her we'll get a 4 door in about 3 years - aint told her yet that I got my heart set on an RS4, which costs £50k

I've searched all over the place for a buyers guide to an S3 but have had no luck... which is where hopefully you guys come in

Could anyone guide me in the right way?
I'm looking for an 02/03 model. It has has has to have the following though:
Noggy Blue (pref pearlecent!)
Sunroof (pref glass!) This is the one thing that hardly any s3's have. Why?
Chrome mirrors.
Added bonus would be heated alcantara seats

Did all S3's come with A/C and Climate? Or is climate an extra?
I know I'm being a touch picky, but if I'm to keep the car for 3 years why not hey!
I've seen the Noggy blue for sale on here and it's almost perfect. but I don't think it has a roof on it (sunroof that is for any of you smarty pants out there

Hope you folk can help.
Thanks
Alps