In another thread I wrote:
Brand new and unused 'the' oil seal is a circular section highly flexible O ring. The one I dug out of my car was flat in section, rock hard and brittle to the point that it broke into many pieces when I removed it. I doubt that any product could have recovered mine - not saying that a conditioner wouldn't help if used from new though.
New seal:

Old seal:
DIYing the oil pump is not easy (ha! like anything is 'easy' on these cars), took me a long time browsing the net and reading ElsaWin before I started.
Picking and choosing the radiator removal parts of ATinOf's
engine removal thread will be helpful.
Proviso - I may have forgotten everything that I did....
Usual basics, disconnect battery etc.
Drain coolant, drain oil. Depending on your workspace set up etc you may be able to get away without having the aircon depressurised but that will involve some thought and ingenuity as to supporting either the condensor or the whole radiator assembly so the pipes aren't strained. You can do this without removing the inter coolers and auxillary radiators but you may find that pipes and hoses get in the way of what you're doing.
Remove bumper, oil cooler. Disconnect and drain down the power steering cooler - this uses crimp clips which have to be cut off and like gear oil the drained fluid stinks.
Remove bonnet lock from radiator/slam panel assembly, disconnect front looms (radiator fan multi plugs at the bottom - very awkward) (horns, air con pressure switch etc on the bumper bar) if you have to remove the rad assembly entirely from the car you'll need to remove a piece of loom that's clipped along the bottom of the radiator. When you first move the radiator you then can disconnect a small loom at the top of the radiator (there's a connector a bit down on the left side) this is for the bonnet lock warning and other things I think.
Now you have a bunch of hoses to remove from the water pump before you're faced with the question of what to do with the power steering pipe that's clipped to the front of the water pump.

The metal part of the pipe winds it's way back around the LH turbo to the hydraulic pump which is just forwards of the LH drive shaft. Disconnected from the pump you can move the pipe around a bit but you've little chance (like, no chance) of removing it with the engine in place. It may be possible to get the oil pump off with the pipe in place - I was removing the turbos as well so it had to go.
Removing the thermostat cover (I'd taken it off when I took the above pic) gives you a bit more room to play with - warning, although it's held on with stainless fasteners into the alloy water pump case you may find that age and road conditions (salt etc) has locked the fasteners in place (I had one shear off) so I advise use of a lot of penetrating fluid and cleaning the threaded holes with a tap before reassembly.
There is a double metal pipe assembly for the gear box cooler which is awkwardly bolted to the pump and joins to hoses just above the subframe - not the most easy thing to remove but you'll need to do it. From what I remember I either disconnected the hoses further back or managed to push the pipes back until I could get to the clips above the subframe.
Now there are 4 oil pipes - the two main pipes (pretty easy to get to although the hex socket bolts for the front pipe may need a cut down driver) and two turbo oil return pipes.
Nearly there....
There are now 2 'retainer' brackets - the triangular one visible top left in the above picture (just remove the topmost bolt) and a 'L' shaped item towards the back of the pump on the left side. The 'L' shaped one is awkward - held vertically to the engine block by a very shallow headed 12 point M8 bolt and to the pump by a couple of smaller Torx bolts. Although ElsaWin says to just remove the two smaller ones, it's easier if you remove all three, being sure to seat the 12 point bit correctly and taking care not to strip the splines out of the bolt (no prize for guessing what I did).
Now you're left with the pump bolts - 13 if I remember correctly, with a specific loosening and tightening sequence. The front most bolt goes through a hollow dowel - it helps considerably to remove this bolt AND the sleeve (if you can) before removing the other bolts and trying to get the pump off the engine which needs a sort of forward and anti-clockwise motion to release it from the water pipe and drive shaft.
The pump will still contain a remarkable quantity of oil, some of which will of course not stay IN the pump so caution is advised.
Reassembly is, like most manuals state, the reverse of the removal.
The approved method for refiling, priming and bleeding the power steering is covered in ElsaWin.